I must say, men and women are different. Their brains and physicality are different. Both brains can hold and process the same information and personality between in both very but one must not forget biology; from hormones to anatomy, their bodies have unique purposes and both have different motivations - by-and-large, men want to pass-on their genes and women select which genes are best for her future children.
There isn't any point in pointing the finger-of-blame - both objectify eachother, that's how we procreate. We instinctively see eachother and a means to an end.
If relations between the sexes is to be peaceful, with happiness for both, we need to be mindful and seek relationships for their emotional and intellectual value.
Peace be with you.